Stop Trying to Fit

Have you had the experience of not meeting the expectations that you have for yourself?

Have you had the experience of not meeting other people’s expectations for you?

Have you tried to fit into a space that feels cramped?

Are you curious about who you really are?

Are you telling yourself that you should be a certain type of mom, partner, friend, daughter?

Are you still convinced that your hips should be smaller and your thighs thinner?

Are you avoiding certain interactions because you fear judgment?

Does this all sound OVERWHELMINGLY NOISY?

It is. 

And, there is a solution.

It is not the easy one, though. 

You will have to overcome many limiting beliefs.

You will have to have your own back.

You will have to say No to them and Yes to you.

You will have to be willing to stop trying to FIT into a space that you don’t belong to and curate the space that you actually FIT in.

Designing and bringing to life what you were destined for.

There are no rules where you are going.

Today, I want you to realize that you are uniquely amazing AND you deserve to discover what it is that you are looking for. Connection? Freedom? Adventure? Peace?

And… once you decide on ONE core desire, a feeling you are craving more of. What is one thing you can do to honor this more? For example, if I want to feel more connection, I would evaluate what is holding me back from feeling more connected.

HOLDING ME BACK: Indulging in restlessness that is preventing me from slowing down and cherishing the amazing connection that I have with Mark and the girls AND choosing to foster more.

Action plan. Slowing Down. More Connection. When society tells me to speed up and be more productive... I can’t fit in that space anymore. I am just not willing to.

I am sharing this with you all because this is my own personal work right now. I am creating my own custom space, and I invite you to join me.

Wishing you an amazing week filled with many amazing reflections.

Xoxoxo
Ali